Coping with the Emotional
Side of Serious Illness
(October 2008)
The stresses and strains of serious conditions can make depression more likely, which can further complicate or prolong recovery. Staying positive and watching for signs of depression are important parts of the healing process.
All too often, when a person is
diagnosed with a serious illness,
the focus is solely on healing the body.
While there’s no disputing the
necessity of a physical cure and
disease management, almost anyone
dealing with a critical diagnosis also
needs mental and emotional care
and healing.
The following answers to common
questions can help you or a loved
one determine if a mental health
professional could be of service.
If I have cancer or heart disease, how could I possibly feel better about my situation?
While you can’t change the facts
of your condition, you can change
how you allow them to limit your life
experience.
Living well with the challenges of
a chronic illness requires an attitude
that’s realistic and positive, resilient
and flexible.
How could a mental health professional help me deal with my condition?
A qualified therapist can help
people build emotional resilience
when faced with the difficulties of
chronic illness. With the help of an
experienced psychologist, you can
learn and practice appropriate coping
strategies such as the following:
- Stay close to family and friends. Accepting help from those close to you can strengthen resilience and reduce feelings of isolation. A therapist can help you resist the temptation to retreat from those who love you.
- Accept change. Depending on your condition, you may not be able to participate as you once did in activities you enjoy. Accepting change is difficult for many people; psychologists can help you remain positive in the face of altered circumstances.
- Choose hope. Negative test results and other setbacks can make it difficult for someone with a serious illness to sustain a positive attitude. An objective and caring therapist can help you keep each day in perspective.
- Manage stress. The strains of uncomfortable treatments, fears of an uncertain future, and changing capabilities contribute to the stress of living with a challenging diagnosis. Effective therapists can teach stress-management techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, and progressive relaxation.
- Maintain stability. Chronic conditions can make life chaotic and uncertain. Regular meetings with a therapist can help provide a steady emotional balance.
Does psychology have a track record of helping with specific illnesses?
Psychological counseling before
heart disease procedures can produce
shorter stays in the critical care unit,
less emotional distress, and shorter
hospital stays according to the American
Psychological Association. After
a heart attack, group therapy for
recovering heart patients improves
psychological well-being and cuts the
death rate in the first three years of
recovery.
Do therapists have any role after the treatment of a serious illness is finished?
The body may be mended when
the final chemotherapy is administered
or operation is complete.
However, in many cases it’s not
unusual for the mind to need further
care and support as the person moves
on to changed physical and emotional
circumstances.
In addition, studies have found
people who survive serious illnesses
are likely to reassess their life’s priorities
as they move forward. An experienced
therapist can be an invaluable
guide in this uncharted landscape.
By Barbara Floria, editor of Vitality. For more information, visit the American Psychological Association at http://apahelpcenter.org.
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