Promote Your
Professional Presence
(January 2012)
Having something to say is only part of the equation.
How you say it counts, too.
You’re in a meeting. A topic you
know well comes up, but you stay
silent. Maybe you’re habitually deferring
to another coworker, or to your
boss. Or perhaps you’ve told yourself
you won’t be heard anyway—so
what’s the use?
A crisis of confidence typically lies
behind such performance stall-outs.
But American Management Association
experts agree: With a few moves,
you can cultivate a more powerful
professional presence and enjoy the
increased effectiveness that comes
with it. Here’s how.
Find Your Center
Do you change your behavior
because of how you think you should
act? If so, you won’t appear genuine,
says executive consultant Michelle
Tillis Lederman (The 11 Laws of
Likability, AMACOM, 2012).
Take a breath. Ask yourself,
“What’s the worst that could happen
if I’m honest?” Usually, it’s not that
bad. Remember what you bring to
the situation, and try again.
Emphasize Upsides
Consciously shift your focus from
what you do less well to what you do
very well. You’ll bolster your internal
confidence barometer and be better
able to inspire others by speaking
with greater authenticity and passion.
Challenge Expectations
Center stage is scary—especially for
women who were taught that “nice
girls don’t show off.” Gender aside,
if you stay quiet to avoid seeming
overbearing, you check your expertise
at the door.
Don’t await an invitation—and don’t
fear upstaging others. It’s up to them
to find a moment in the spotlight.
Get Physical
Your mental state affects how you
carry yourself. If you feel unsure, you
may speak softly, clasp your hands,
or slump your shoulders.
But the reverse is also true—your
posture affects how you feel. Stand
up straight. Hold your head high.
Pull your shoulders back. Widen
your stance, put your hands on your
hips, and smile.
A “power stance” boosts the
hormone testosterone (while curbing
cortisol, the stress hormone). You’ll
reap a gain in confidence.
Channel Pacino
Not his violent roles—just his acting:
- Remember a time you felt successful.
- Picture it, recalling your certainty and enthusiasm.
- Envision that version of yourself at the next meeting.
What would you achieve? Rehearse
mentally. You’re almost certain to
exude more confidence at your next
opportunity.
Manage Your Manager
If your boss tends to speak first, loudly,
and often, draft meeting agendas
beforehand. Write out your main
points and ask for the boss’s opinions
before the meeting. The boss may be
more likely to let you fly solo. As you
become more comfortable speaking
up, you may find your credibility
increasing among your peers, too.
Accept Compliments Skillfully
Deflecting praise with a kick to the
dirt and a mumbled “aw, shucks”
undermines your authority. Instead,
experts suggest sharing your success.
Smile, look the person in the eye,
and say, “Thanks! That means a lot,
coming from you.” You accept a compliment
and flatter your admirer.
Learn from Failure
People are conditioned to avoid mistakes,
but getting stuck in a rut can
kill your creative energy. So try something
new. Even if it flops, you learn
more than you would by playing it
safe. Surviving and learning from an
error makes you more willing to take
a risk again next time.
By Stephanie Molnar, a feature writer
for Vitality. To learn more, visit the
American Management Association
at www.amanet.org.
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